Traversing Relationships

What impact does gender have on the family? What do our roles have to do with who we are and how we function as a unit? I think it’s interesting to compare traditional values with today’s societal beliefs. Right off the bat, I want to clarify that these are my beliefs. If you do not agree, that is okay and you have every right to do so. Everyone has different life experiences, so your views may vary.   I believe that the best marriages are those between a husband and wife that are committed to each other. They are also committed to their children and helping them develop into mature males and females. I think the roles of the members of the family are greatly influenced by gender. Fathers and Sons; Mothers and Daughters are “mini-me” relationships. The examples and influences of parents to their children is imperative to helping them maintain emotional and physical intelligence. Having a role model to look up to- mothers who are nurturing and guiding; fathers who preside a...

For this week’s blog post I wanted to talk about something that has been on my mind lately. There are infinite possible discussions in this area, but I wanted to write just a few of my thoughts about the family.   In a society where the family is becoming a “back-burner” priority, it is alarming how much we forget just how much the family affects. If you think about how children and their ideas of the world are formed, their first interactions are with their family. Their beliefs, cultural background, interests, education, etc. all begin with what they see at home. When the family is broken up or people decide not to make having/raising kids a priority, it is sad to see these lessons fade away. I think sometimes people see kids as burdens rather than priorities. There are lots of opinions along the lines of kids interrupt careers, education, even having fun. But really, they are the purpose of our lives. We need to make helping the next generation a priority. Our kids a...

Do you ever just ponder about the amazing design of the family unit?  Whether yours is biologically related or yours consists of chosen members, families are a beautiful thing.  Families are a support system, a system of checks and balances, a unit of love, a place of safety...I can't even begin to image where I would be in life if I didn't have my family. The escapades we have gone on include countless moves; Utah, Texas, China, Alabama, Hawaii, Washington, California...countless memories; glaciers, waterfalls, rural country, the heart of the city, mountains, canyons, the list goes on. Through all of the personality phases to the slow maturation of young adulthood, my family has always been there. When people ask where I am from, I always say wherever my family is because life wouldn't be complete without them.  The family is an interesting system. Every member plays an important part- from the development of social skills between siblings to the exam...

We live in a shifting society.  The social culture these days is focused on "me" and the community mindset is disappearing... Today, I want to address a subject that is very controversial. People are up in arms over this subject everyday because of our feel-good influences. Media, friends, family, etc...even teachers are encouraging the lifestyle of excessive individualism.  Individualism according to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary is " a doctrine that the interests of the  individual  are or ought to be ethically paramount." My question is, doctrine according to who?? If you think about the world in which we live, this frame of mind is common. It doesn't seem out of place and if you don't dig further, then this definition is perfectly acceptable. However, there is no reference as to who determined the doctrine of individualism- and especially in terms of our society, excessive individualism . With life evolving constantly, it is no wonder that our v...